Wednesday, November 28, 2007

What are Homosexuals For?

I found this article to be very interesting because currently this is the topic my friend and I have been discussing. My friend is questioning her sexuality right now and she comes to me to talk about the problems she faces since none of my other friends don't really tolerate homosexual people. And it pisses me off that my best friend would cut off all ties with my friend if she decides shes a lesbian. It hurts me that my best friend could say such a thing, shes known my friend for over 5 years and yet she'd do something like that. I wish people would see through sexual preference and focus on the kind of person they are. I would not give up my friend for the world, she is a kind and thoughtful person and I love talking to her. I believe that you are born with the kind of people you prefer, you can't change who you are more attracted to. Say you are a homosexual but deny it and force yourself to marry someone of the opposite sex. You'll be living a lie for the rest of your life and you might be unhappy as well. I've watched show on whole families being broken up: wife, husband, and kids because the person decided to come out. I don't think I could live a life of lies, you fall in love with whoever will love you back. Love is love. Why marry someone when you cannot fully love them back. If I was in a situation where I had either the choice of being with a guy who was rude and mean to me or a girl who was my significant other and there was no one else I could choose, I would probably choose the girl. In today's world I do see a very positive shift towards the LGBT community which I am extremely happy about. This whole issue on homosexuality is almost like integration of races in my opinion, we are getting one step closer to total tolerance. And I can see in the near future that there will be a huge movement towards tolerance of the LGBT community.

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